I remember when my last relationship was starting to be on the rocks, when he started losing interest in sex, we stopped being affectionate with one another all together. Not that he was ever much for displaying his feelings to begin with. Which caused *me* to lose interest in being sexual with him when he made advances.
By the same token, S and I (and many other men & women I have had healthy, productive relationships with) can't be in a room together without touching in some manner, even just for a minute. It turns your whole day into foreplay.
Oh!! And here is another idea, do you think she would be willing to go to a strip club with you? Its amazing the kind of attention a woman in a strip club gets- from the dancers and the patrons. Maybe feeling *that* desirable might help her?
By the same token, S and I (and many other men & women I have had healthy, productive relationships with) can't be in a room together without touching in some manner, even just for a minute. It turns your whole day into foreplay.
Oh!! And here is another idea, do you think she would be willing to go to a strip club with you? Its amazing the kind of attention a woman in a strip club gets- from the dancers and the patrons. Maybe feeling *that* desirable might help her?
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