in the past

relationships — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 07:20:26 +0200

I remember when my last relationship was starting to be on the rocks, when he started losing interest in sex, we stopped being affectionate with one another all together. Not that he was ever much for displaying his feelings to begin with. Which caused *me* to lose interest in being sexual with him when he made advances.

By the same token, S and I (and many other men & women I have had healthy, productive relationships with) can't be in a room together without touching in some manner, even just for a minute. It turns your whole day into foreplay.

Oh!! And here is another idea, do you think she would be willing to go to a strip club with you? Its amazing the kind of attention a woman in a strip club gets- from the dancers and the patrons. Maybe feeling *that* desirable might help her?

agreement

relationships — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 05:17:16 +0200

I'll add an aggreement to part B. Even though on the
outside she may say ok, have a female as a close
friend...I know that for me I always end up
questioning myself as to what it is that this female
is giving him (friendship wise) that I can't give him.
If it's an acquaintence he's had for a long time
before me, I can understand. Or someone that maybe
enjoys an activity with him that I don't. But other
than that, when say my boyfriend makes this new female
friend that he'd rather spend time with doing average
stuff (like dinner, movie, whatever have you) I end up
wondering why I wasn't first choice in something like
that.

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in the past

agreement