relationships

FWIW, S. and I are having the *same exact* issue. As he reads through my
books and magazines, watches my movies and talks to my friends though he is
beginning to warm up to the idea and light weight experiment. I can
certainly sympathize with the frustration of Vanilla-only sex life right now
though. Especially since we had the exclusivity discussion recently- which
neatly removed my Playmate from *my* sex life. Interesting thing about
that...S. is the first man (or woman) in *years* that makes me WANT
monogamy. I willingly had The Talk with my Playmate of my own accord a few
days before S. brought up monogamy.

At least his saving grace is he's totally a natural dom and takes direction
well. Training someone to properly Top me from the Bottom is draining
though. ;-)