I'll add an aggreement to part B. Even though on the
outside she may say ok, have a female as a close
friend...I know that for me I always end up
questioning myself as to what it is that this female
is giving him (friendship wise) that I can't give him.
If it's an acquaintence he's had for a long time
before me, I can understand. Or someone that maybe
enjoys an activity with him that I don't. But other
than that, when say my boyfriend makes this new female
friend that he'd rather spend time with doing average
stuff (like dinner, movie, whatever have you) I end up
wondering why I wasn't first choice in something like
that.
outside she may say ok, have a female as a close
friend...I know that for me I always end up
questioning myself as to what it is that this female
is giving him (friendship wise) that I can't give him.
If it's an acquaintence he's had for a long time
before me, I can understand. Or someone that maybe
enjoys an activity with him that I don't. But other
than that, when say my boyfriend makes this new female
friend that he'd rather spend time with doing average
stuff (like dinner, movie, whatever have you) I end up
wondering why I wasn't first choice in something like
that.

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